Do Sociopaths have Souls?
by
Julia Melges-Brenner. Copyright Sabrina Scott, Inc. All rights
reserved. Written for and originally published in Kajama.
Dear
Julia:
I was recently talking with
some friends about sociopaths and all sorts of interesting questions
came up. For example, do you think it's possible that sociopaths lack
souls? There certainly seem to be evil people in the world; I'd love to
hear your thoughts on how they came to be that way.
Karen
Dear Karen:
First let's define "sociopath." While the term probably makes most
people think of serial killers, there are many people diagnosed as
sociopaths who lead ordinary lives, at least on the surface. In fact,
some researchers put the incidence of sociopathy in the general
population as high as four percent, or 1 in 25 people, which means that
you and I probably know our own fair share of such individuals.
Basically, sociopaths are people who seem to have no conscience and are
incapable of empathy. They lie, manipulate and deceive to get what they
want, and they do so without any guilt or remorse. They seem to be
fundamentally unable to truly love and care about others.
Of course, labels like "sociopath" are troubling because nothing is as
black and white as we'd like to think. Just as some people are highly
compassionate and empathetic, others fall at the other end of the
spectrum to varying degrees. Most people who regularly engage in
hurtful, selfish behavior are simply un-evolved spiritually, so they
have a less developed conscience than the average person.
Since we are spirits housed in physical bodies, most of us have a
so-called higher self and lower self, and are constantly struggling to
overcome our biology in order to live by higher ideals. We call people
who are extraordinarily good at overcoming their lower natures saints,
and people who fail miserably at it sociopaths or just plain evil. In
some of us, the light of our higher selves shines brightly through,
while in others, that light is impossible to find.
The higher self is the
soul. When it incarnates in a human body, it must struggle to both
impart its own essence into the body and acquire wisdom through the
experiences it has while in the body. When we are awake, this higher
self comes through during periods of deep reflection, sudden insights
and intuitions, and the voice of our conscience. Since it must come
through a mind that is rooted in physical conditioning and all the
desires and fears of the body/ego, this voice is often distorted. The
more spiritually evolved and integrated with the higher self we are,
the more clearly we hear the voice of our conscience. It is the voice
of the higher self that stops us from acting on selfish impulses; it's
the higher self that urges us to be kind, do the right thing, and try
to become better people.
While I'd like to further the idea that everyone is equally "spiritual"
by nature, there do seem to be people in the world who are missing
something essential. They may seem intelligent, physically healthy and
even successful in the world, but they show no indication of having any
higher consciousness. I can think of two people I've been very close to
who seem fundamentally different on a spiritual level from everyone
else. They seem to lack not only conscience and empathy for others but
also self-awareness and the ability to honestly observe and question
themselves.
Their energy feels different from other people's as well: There is
something missing or vacant in them. Though they may otherwise seem
normal and in some cases highly intelligent, they are emotionally
one-dimensional. For example, in the midst of a highly charged
situation wherein everyone else is distressed or in tears, these
individuals will remain cold and indifferent. Though many sociopaths
are very good at pretending they care, they are never truly moved by
others' pain and heartache.
How to explain such people? First I think we need to open our minds to
the idea that not every human body on the planet is inhabited by the
same type of soul. The following is just one way to look at things. I'm
not saying this is the absolute answer - no one really knows - but it
does fit with what some of the greatest metaphysical minds have taught
while explaining some puzzles about the nature of humankind.
Imagine that our souls are beings from another dimension that became
aware of this beautiful realm we call Earth. We felt drawn to
personally experience this dimension so we sought vehicles we could use
in order to explore the Earth plane. Where most souls we call human
chose the bodies of apes, metaphysical beings of different natures
perhaps chose other animal bodies. These animals existed here before we
began to inhabit them; we just saw an opportunity and found a way to
join with the animal body in order to incarnate here. (None of this
should be taken as a denigration of animals, by the way, as many
animals seem to be more sociable and loving than the average sociopath!)
Just as our experiences in these bodies impacted our souls, our souls
impacted these bodies. Since our souls brought a whole new level of
consciousness to the table, apes quickly began to evolve into what we
now call human beings. This rapid biological evolution led to endless
possibilities for ever higher levels of experience.
If it's possible for the souls of what we call humans to do this, it's
possible for the souls of other sorts of beings to do the same thing.
It's also possible that sometimes bodies are born without the soul of a
being from another dimension. I'm suggesting that sociopaths may either
lack souls or have souls that are different in nature from the rest of
us.
Humans differ from animals because we are capable of self-reflection
and have a conscience. If a body were to be born without a human soul,
it would have no higher self, no conscience, and ultimately no higher
spiritual purpose. As it would not be here to learn spiritual lessons,
its main motivations would be to seek pleasure in the moment and
survive. Since it would have no higher destiny, no wisdom from past
lives to draw upon, and no higher self guiding its decisions, it
wouldn't behave like people with souls do; it would behave like a
sociopath.
This doesn't mean that everyone who seems to lack conscience is
sub-human or soul-less. Many are just young souls or people who have
yet to awaken to their higher nature. Some people are almost completely
controlled by their lower natures, and some are being strongly
influenced by negative outside metaphysical entities.
In order to be more than physical beings, we must develop our higher
natures. Developing our higher natures requires more than intellect: we
have to follow our hearts to what is right and important beyond worldly
concerns and physical survival; ponder ourselves from a higher
perspective; and contemplate the deeper meaning of life. We must learn
to think for ourselves and develop spiritual awareness so that we can
consciously live from higher values instead of unconsciously acting
from the instincts and desires of the body and the mindless programming
of socialization. This is the freedom we stand to gain from spiritual
development.
While this theory is certainly far out, it does explain why some people
seem to be morally bankrupt, as well as why otherwise ordinary
individuals sometimes behave like "animals." Whether you believe
everyone has a human soul or not, it's obvious that some people are
lacking in conscience; when this lack of conscience is extreme, the
result is sociopathy.
-
Julia
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